Why I Ride: Misty Alexander

As we lead up to this year’s Spin for Kid’s we wanted to share the stories of our riders and why they ride for Kate’s Club. Tonight Misty shares her story in her own words. Misty Alexander is a Kate’s Club Ambassador and super buddy. This year marks her fourth year riding for the Kate’s Club team.

A Letter from Lauren

A Letter from Lauren

I learned long before volunteering with Kate’s Club about children and grief. My 3rd year teaching, a very special student of mine tragically lost her father. By year 3 I had learned how to guide a reading group, teach a math algorithm and hold a parent conference. What I didn’t know was the part of teaching that blindsides you when you least expect it. I wasn’t prepared for the part of teaching that would teach me.

Lauren Newell did just that – at 6 years old. I didn’t know what to do for Lauren other than buy her a Beanie Baby! (Much like grown ups seem to only know to bake casseroles and send flowers.) I also went to the funeral. I wasn’t sure if I was supposed to. Did teachers even do that? Was it too personal? Oh…the things you don’t learn in college.

At the funeral I watched everyone standing solemnly, her mother in shock going through the motions, her grandparents stepping in to carry some of her weight. Nobody really knew what to say. Except Lauren. Lauren came running through the pews to me with her new Beanie Baby. She told me she picked out a dress to match its dress, hugged me tight and ran off like nothing was out of the ordinary. I knew in that moment that Lauren would need time and comfort, security to be herself. I knew that in that particular moment, she needed most to be a child. In her own time she would talk if she needed to, and she did. Lauren is an adult now and has a beautiful little girl of her own. I still have the thank you note she wrote me. I told her someone probably made her write it – the obligatory thank you note – but it didn’t matter to me. I’ve held it close to my heart for more years than I can count.

I am so very proud of the person she has grown up to be and I thank her for being one of MY first teachers.  I’ll be riding 100 miles for Lauren, and MANY other children grieving the loss of a parent or a sibling.

To join the Kate’s Club team or make a donation to a Kate’s Club rider visit www.spinforkids.org.

Why I Ride: Kirsten Miklethun

As we lead up to this year’s Spin for Kid’s we wanted to share the stories of our riders and why they ride for Kate’s Club. Tonight Kirsten shares in her own words how a student’s lasting impression and a friend who knew about Kate’s Club convinced her to get on the bike her first year. This will be Kirstin’s third year riding to support Kate’s Club.

Spin for Kids

Spin for Kids

When you work in a school as large as mine (750+ students) for as long as I have (18 years) you experience just about everything life offers.

The joy and excitement of children is like no other! Seeing children learn and discover and watching them marvel at the world is one of the most amazing things. Children are like an intensifying filter. The best things are so much better through their eyes- but so too, the bad things in life are much worse when they impact a child.

In my early years teaching, one of my sweet students lost her mother to cancer. In the aftermath, her family was shattered…her older siblings joined their father in California. She went to NYC with her grandmother. That year was so hard, watching her pain. Wishing there was more I could do. I looked at my own children who were close to her in age and wondered … if wasn’t here was there anyone who could ever love them as intensely as I did? The answer is most likely no, a mother’s love is so unique….What could I do to help this precious girl?

I heard about Kate’s Club from Misty. I knew this was a cause near and dear to Misty Alexander ‘s heart. I knew she spent a week at camp Good Mourning each year. I respected her passion and dedication. I thought I could offer her moral support riding along with her. I thought, if I can make a small difference in the life of a child, I should try. I decided it was time to join the Kate’s Club Spin for Kids team.


To join the Kate’s Club team or make a donation to a Kate’s Club rider visit www.spinforkids.org.


Thank you, MMM!

When someone is grieving many people are at a loss for words – how can they be most helpful to the person or family that is grieving? What do they say? How should they act? We have used this blog as a space to share the stories of people who are grieving, ideas for coping with grief – quite simply the blog is one way that we spread our vision of ‘a world where it is okay to grieve’. Grief is a multifaceted response to loss and therefore requires support from many places. The support of friends, family, and community makes a tremendous impact on a person’s grief journey. At Kate’s Club we do this through outings, clubhouse days, park bench, KC Connects and Camp Good Mourning. It takes the help of volunteers, staff and our sponsors.

Clubhouse days would not be possible without support from sponsors like MMM.

Clubhouse days would not be possible without support from sponsors like MMM.

In our community one such sponsor has been Morris, Manning & Martin. Today, in their own words, we share why they selected Kate’s Club as their charity of choice for 2014.

At Morris, Manning & Martin, we firmly believe that giving back within the communities that we work and live is a duty of every business. While we give time, effort and monetary support to numerous charitable organizations throughout the year, we annually pick one primary charity we partner with to support financially, with pro bono services, administratively, and with volunteer efforts. 

In 2014, we selected Kate’s Club and we couldn’t be more thrilled with the results of our relationship.  Our partnership is about more than the immediate pride in giving back. When we contribute time, money and effort, our goal is to see that our partnership provides tangible, everyday benefits to the community; Kate’s Club gives us the opportunities we like to get involved and really see the difference.  We are able to speak directly with the children who are benefitting and know that what Kate’s Club is doing, with assistance from Morris, Manning & Martin, really makes a significant and positive difference in their lives.

Most recently, we hosted a fund-raiser for Kate’s Club that drew in hundreds of our clients, friends and colleagues. Again, with Kate’s Club help, the results were phenomenal. The attendees were able to enjoy themselves and create stronger bonds with MMM, but more importantly they learned about Kate’s Club and its critically important mission.

Kate’s Club has been an excellent partner for MMM.  We are very proud to be able to support it.

We are grateful to MMM for their willingness to be an advocate and supporter of grieving families when they need it the most.

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Be a Part of the #bluenovember Campaign

Three and a half years ago this blog was launched as a platform to further the Kate’s Club vision of creating a world where it is okay to grieve. Through our clubhouse programs, KC Connects, our blog and various social media platforms YOU have helped us build a network of people committed to facing grief together – thank you! Jordan is just one kid in the Kate’s Club family who is not just surviving, but thriving thanks to this network.

But there are more Jordans out there – for all of the Jordans we have yet to reach we ask that you join our #bluenovember campaign. National Childhood Griefawareness Day is November 21st and we are dedicating the entire month to draw attention to the needs of thousands of grieving children. (Yes, we know it is only September, but with so much too look forward to in November we could not wait to share some of the plans.)

Memory Walk 2013

Memory Walk 2013

How can you be an advocate, friend and supporter as part of #bluenovember?

  1. Have your workplace, school or personal network wear blue or host a fundraiser in November
  2. Conduct one of the grief activity programs we will be sharing on the blog in your community
  3. Share your story on the Face Grief Together blog launching in September
  4. Attend this year’s Memory Walk on November 15 at Coan Park
  5. Help Kate’s Club continue to provide free programs for our families with a donation

If you would like more information on how you can participate or volunteer, please reach out to Rachel@katesclub.com. And, be sure to follow us on social media for important campaign announcements as we prepare for #bluenovember!

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Thank You for Camp Good Mourning 2014!

Camp Good Mourning 2014 was another wonderful (and record breaking!) program for Kate’s Club! We will be posting more pictures and feature some blog posts from Camp.  We had 18o Kate’s Club members attend Camp Good Mourning this year and they were supported by 80 buddies!

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Camp Good Mourning Buddies

We can not say thank you enough to our amazing buddies for their incredible work that allows Camp Good Mourning to not only happen but to be a meaningful experience. We also want to thank New York Life for, once again, providing volunteers for our camp wide festival held on Saturday. Autotrader also provided a number of volunteers and, again this year, helped to stream line our check-in and drop off process. KPMG provided volunteers to work with the kids during drop off and also traveled to Camp Good Mourning to assist with unloading buses and then, again, on Sunday provided extra hands for loading the buses for our return trip.


Kate with Former Kate’s Club Members – Now Junior Buddies!

We’re happy to see every single one of our buddies and campers. We are always especially happy to welcome back former Kate’s Club members as junior buddies. It puts into perspective for us how far we have come as an organization! We are already planning and looking forward to next year!

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